ACCOUNTABILITY: The Mirror That Don’t Lie
- snowcap777555
- Jun 20
- 3 min read
Let’s talk about it- Accountability is not punishment. Not at all. What it really is it's the ownership the "POWER" and if you’re really about healing it’s non-negotiable. Accountability is part of the healing process. This is non-negotiable on how YOU can take accountability. Which can be a goal that can be written down by just admitting to your doings and knowing how to recorrect them.
It’s You. Let’s Start There- Now we all know we love calling people out until it’s our turn. Thats Human which is a natural instinct. I get that COOL but be MINDFUL that we are taking "ACCOUNTABILITY". We love to cast stones but never take them back and put them in our basket once we empty ours. Which is a natural repose for some for others not so much. But if the vibes keep shifting everywhere you go. Stop and think logically now an say Let's Go to the common denominator which is you. SET YA EGO ASIDE. Which I know and understand because I was you. At one point in my life, I barley took a 100% accountability. As I grew as a person and a human. I know now no matter how bad or how worse it can get I FULLY take on 100% of my actions and accountability to what and how I move in life. By doing that and you make ask me how and what do you mean.
Accountability means:
Not blaming your triggers for your toxic responses
Owning the fact that survival mode hurt some people you loved
Admitting you ignored the red flags in yourself not just in them
Now understand that this ain't shame. It's realignment. So, understand this is the process of healing and learning to unlearn these curses and become the better human version of yourself.
Accountability Equals Self-Abuse- We’re not here to beat ourselves up we’re here to grow TF up. Because accountability with love is correction but accountability without grace. That’s self-sabotage wearing a righteous face. You're allowed to say: Yes, I did that. It was wrong. And here’s what I’m doing to make sure I don’t keep moving like that. I apologize take acknowledgment into your doings. Not saying I am sorry because you meant to do that. You ARE FULLY AWARE of your doings. So, the ? is Are you going to take "ACCOUNTABILITY" for your actions and doings.
Break the Pattern. Not Just the People- Most of us were raised in systems where blame was a weapon. Where silence was the apology. Thats not okay. Where gaslighting wasn’t just something we got it was something we learned to do. Which is way worse in today society. But accountability says: I won’t pass that down. I’ll break the pattern even if it breaks my ego. Because our EGO does not define who we are as a person or human. WE just ALL have one. How big is your ego enough to take accountability at all times with the mistakes and all.
Accountability Sounds Like-
I hurt you. And I understand why.
That version of me was surviving, not healing.
I kept showing up inconsistent. That’s on me.
I’m not just sorry. I’m changing and I apologize
Real Ones Respect Accountability- You don’t lose power by admitting you were wrong you gain trust. Because the ones who matter don’t need you to be perfect. They need you to be present, honest, and willing to do better when you know better. As my favor artist would say "I'm inspired by everything that goes on around me. I'm a sponge. I'm very analytical. I notice the things that most people don't notice." ~ Kevin Gates. Taking accountability is very blind eyed into society that we live today. People become so defensive and feel they lose power by just simply admitting they were in the wrong.
Tap In- On the Snow C.A.P. Podcast we don’t just talk about trauma, loyalty, or healing. We talk about the responsibility that comes with all of it. Accountability is the doorway to growth and we’re walking through it, every episode.
You want elevation? Own your part. And then rise. WE rise TOGETHER here Snow C.A.P. Podcast
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